Have you ever thought about what it takes to build a life worth following? It’s an important question, especially for those of us striving to lead in our families, workplaces, and communities. In our recent sermon series, "Assembly Required," we’ve been diving into the letter of 1 Timothy, where the Apostle Paul provides valuable guidance on what it takes to lead a church and, more broadly, a life that others can look up to.

One key point Paul makes is that building a life worth following begins with character. He writes, “A church leader must be a man whose life is above reproach” (1 Timothy 3:2, NLT). This means living in a way that doesn’t deserve criticism, not because we’re perfect, but because our actions consistently reflect our values and commitments. Paul emphasizes qualities like faithfulness, self-control, and having a good reputation. These aren't just for church leaders—they're principles we should all aspire to.

Character naturally influences our conduct. Paul advises leaders to be gentle, not quarrelsome, and not lovers of money. This isn’t about being passive but about showing strength through kindness and integrity. Our conduct should reflect our character, showing others that we are trustworthy and reliable.

Lastly, Paul touches on competence. He mentions being hospitable and able to teach, highlighting the importance of using our gifts to serve others. Competence builds on our character and conduct, enabling us to lead effectively and make a positive impact in our communities.

So, how do we apply these lessons to our lives today? Start by examining your character. Are you someone others can trust? How does your conduct reflect your values? And are you using your abilities to serve and uplift those around you?

Here’s a challenge for the week: think about one area in your life where you can improve your character, conduct, or competence. Maybe it’s being more faithful to your commitments, showing more kindness in your interactions, or honing a skill that can help others. Take a step today to build a life worth following.

By focusing on these principles, we can all become leaders in our own right, setting an example for others and making a meaningful difference in our world.